A baby bath that unveil your baby's personnality
How to turn your baby bath into a frist date, instead of a intensive baby care course.
Your baby is unveiling to you. All you have to do is get to know them – their unique traits, sensitivity, curiosity, and rhythm. We’ll take care of the rest.
I know the constant flow of questions and doubts is overwhelming. Let us remind you that you are doing an excellent job. You’re a great dad. You’re a great mum. You have a perfect and unique baby. And I hope this list will help you see why I have so much trust in your baby and your body, and how you can do it too.
6 PERSONNALITIES WE GIVE TO BABY WE SHOULDN'T
1. No, your baby isn’t lazy if you need to wake them to eat
Their birth might have been more exhausting than others. Their body knows how to prioritise needs. They need rest to eat. Sleep comes first. Your baby is doing exactly what he needs to do.
2. No, you don’t have to wake your baby because your colostrum isn’t enough.
Colostrum is exactly what he needs right now. It is ultra-rich and concentrated, especially to let them rest all the time they need, and to be short and efficient when they get to wake up.
3. No, they’re not lazy at the breast.
Your baby is showing you how they manage their energy « Right now, I have to go back to sleep because I can’t afford breastfeeding to be that long, and to ask me that much effort. I need either your help or sleep. »
4. No, your baby isn’t clingy because they want to be close to you.
You’re just discovering their unique sensory needs.
5. No, your baby is not crying because he doesn’t like the water of his first bath.
He is just telling you it is not the sensory experience he can afford right now. And it needs to be adjusted. You didn’t do anything wrong, you’ve just learned what your baby does or doesn’t like.
6. Mama, No, you’re not overreacting by waking up to every little noise your baby make at night. Your body is hormonally synced with your baby to wake up with them but also to get back to deep and restorative sleep quickly. You can trust your body, Mother Nature got you covered.
7. Papa, No, you’re not disconnected to your baby, » because mom wakes up more and you can’t hear the baby at night ». And you’re certainly not lazy because you’re exhausted too even though mom did ll the hard work » . First you’re not hormonally synced to baby like mummy is. And you can be tired too You’re just recovering from a different kind of exhaustion than mom: the exhaustion of feeling powerless, uncertain, in a situation where the lives of the two people who matter most to you were at risk. It’s a unique kind of exhaustion, so wrap it in compassion too.
This is what I mean, when I wish you and your baby The best start in life →